nytshd3: (Default)

Our trip this year was pretty great.  The flight on the way there was a tight squeeze - we were both uncomfortable and couldn't really move.  Fortunately it was a two person row, so we didn't have to squish in there with a 3rd person.  His knees were really bothering him a lot so he was ready to stand up the minute we touched down, poor thing.  There was just no room at all to stretch.

We did not get the same room as last year, which was disappointing.  We were on the 2nd floor, which was good and bad.  The good was that we could take the stairs if we wanted and it wasn't too bad (it was actually two floors down to the lobby, there was an atrium or mezzanine level between that had a door that didn't open).  But when you're hot and tired, taking the stairs seems too awful.  The bad thing about being on the 2nd floor is that everyone else *expects* you to take the stairs (one full elevator stopped at our floor and someone inside yelled "just take the stairs!".  Note to myself for next year - ask for 541 (or maybe 441 or 341 - that's the side of the hotel we want to be in).  The first day, Rollin and I took the train from the airport to the hotel.  I have to say, this was pretty easy.  The train station is below a building that's right next to our hotel, so we get off the train, go up a few escalators, and we're in a building that's connected to the hotel.  We got checked in, dropped off our stuff, and texted Bruce to come get us for dinner.  The plan was dinner and the grocery store so we could pick up snacks and stuff for our room.  We had some issues getting the connection to work (so that we knew where Bruce was located) but it worked out.  He has a fancy new car that has a BUTT AIR CONDITIONER AND I WANT ONE SO BAD.  Yes, it's a seat that has air conditioning for your butt.  

Anyway, we had a nice dinner and stopped at Target to pick up some stuff, then Bruce dropped Rollin off at the hotel with our stuff from the store and dropped me off at the Sheraton to pick up our badges.  The line wasn't bad (though it took me some time to *find* the actual line), but it was still hot as hell outside (it was in the 90s the whole time we were there) and when I got back to the hotel I just wanted to be in the room so bad that I took the stairs up because I was tired of waiting for the elevators.  I was so gross and sweaty that I pretty much immediately took a shower and felt much better (though they didn't give us anywhere near enough towels.  There were basically enough towels for one person only).

We did a variety of different sessions, some science stuff, a fun comedian, etc.  We also watched some panels with a couple of the guys from Stranger Things, an nice Gina Torres one, a Catherine Tate one, John Barrowman of course, etc.  We watched the masquerade to see the fancy costumes.  I felt like they were a little light on the fancy costumes this year.  Maybe because no one wanted to wear them when it was freaking 90 degrees.  Both Rollin and I think we'd like to do some kind of cosplay for next year, but we don't know what yet.  Rollin even invited me to go dancing one night, but I was so freaking exhausted that we didn't go.  We did nap pretty regularly and I royally screwed up my sleep schedule.  Bruce came every day to get us and take us out to eat, which was really kind of him.  It was a long drive in crappy traffic much of the time and he didn't complain.  He also bought us our meals every time we went out together (and bought us tickets for a movie we went to on Monday) and drove us to the airport to head home.  He surprised me yesterday with reimbursement for one of our flights, so that will help with the overall costs as well.  We did NOT make the trip to the Vortex (the place with the giant wooden penis) this year, which I have regrets about, and Rollin didn't love all the places we went to eat, but overall things were pretty smooth and easy.  Rollin is an easy person to travel with because he's so relaxed and laid back.  Do you want to do X?  Sure.  Do you mind if we skip Y?  No problem.  

I didn't take many pics this year, I brought my camera and ended up never using it.  We saw the back side of the parade so we didn't get many pictures there, but I did snag a couple of pics of wonder woman and princesses to send to Hilary.  I did see some costumes I really liked, but usually when I was walking the opposite direction.  At one point, we were walking through the tunnels between the hotels (due to the oppressive heat, it was much easier to go to the hotels that were connected to ours), there was a group ahead of us carrying a boom box and they were playing "hooked on a feeling" and groups of strangers were bursting into song to sing along with it.  I loved that.  We also went to the "dealer's hall" where they had all kinds of stuff - artwork, clothing, books, toys, etc.  My hips were soooooooo sore from all the walking (we also had to stand in a ridiculously long line just to get *in* to the dealer's hall).  We looked at everything on the first two (out of three) floors and then I decided we needed to just head back to the hotel (after a little rest in the lobby).  I had been feeling a little better from my rest, but once we started the walk back to the hotel, I was glad I hadn't pushed myself to check out the third floor.  It was still fun to see all the stuff that was there though.

Rollin and I also had some extra-spectacular "crossword puzzles" while we were there, not sure what made them so extra good but no complaints from me about it!  I brought our own bedsheet to put on top of the fitted sheet because last year it was really rough and uncomfortable, so I was really glad I brought that too.  We didn't make it to as much stuff as I would have liked to, but it was still a good trip.  

One night, Rollin was coming back to bed after a snack or smoke or something, and he said my eyes were wide open and I was looking at him and doing that kind of screaming you do in dreams where you can't scream.  He touched me thinking that would help and I just screamed more.  He said my eyes were all pupil and it was creepy to see.  Finally he said "it's me" and I said "oh" and closed my eyes and went back to sleep.  I have NO memory of this.


On the potentially less-good side, we got our check-out folio by email a couple hours after checkout, and today I saw the pending charge and it's almost $100 more than what the folio shows!  I don't know why, I'm hoping it's an error and it will be corrected when the official charge comes through, but if not I'm going to have to give them a call and find out what the difference was.  I even checked to see if they sent an updated folio, but nada.

We got back on Monday night, we had a bit of turbulence with all the storms in the area but made it home safely.  Stopped at the store on the way home to get some staples and was sooooo glad we did so we didn't have to worry about it later.  Also really glad I decided to take off yesterday (Tuesday) as I got a bit of time to relax and then got laundry all taken care of.

Also, a couple of non-DragonCon things....

I hadn't bought any new work clothes in a really long time.  I've been pretty much wearing the same shirts over and over for years and I'm so sick of them.  I've made several passes through some resale shops and haven't really had any luck.  Either I can't find my size or I don't like the color/style/fabric/etc.  I was looking for shorts to wear at D/C since it was going to be so hot, and I happened across a couple of sales at a couple of the places I like to get clothes.  I spent under $250 total including tax and shipping and got 8 shirts, one pair of shorts, and one dress.  Probably more than I *should* have been spending but it's so nice to be able to start mixing in the newer things with my old standards.

And then, this is a weird one.  So the library has this online system where you can request that the online program get new books or audiobooks.  Over the past, I don't know, two or three years I've requested a whole bunch of books through the system, and only one or two have actually been approved/purchased.  I just checked, I've requested 35, starting back in 2016.  I requested a bunch of audiobooks when I was listening to books in the Spark because I had to download them onto a drive in order to listen to them.  Well, today I got notification that 8 (!) of the books I had recommended had been purchased.  7 out of 8 were audiobooks, so now I have to figure out what to do about it, as I can't just plug in like I did in the spark to listen.  Fortunately, for most of them I'm on a wait list, so it won't come up for me for a bit.

I mailed my property tax bill before I headed out of town, and I saw today that it hasn't yet cleared.  They're usually right on top of that so I'm a little concerned.
nytshd3: (Default)
Had a pretty good weekend. I was scheduled off on Monday so I was pretty psyched about having a long weekend.

I had plans to take Hilary to see Coco, and I figured we could do it either Friday or Monday depending on scheduling. Friday morning my brother texted to tell me she wasn't feeling great, so he said I could make the call about whether or not we went to the movies depending on how she was feeling. I figured when I got there I'd offer her the option to postpone til Monday because I wanted her to feel OK. Well, she appeared to be in fantastic spirits when I arrived, and she shyly said "I can't wait to see Coco today", so we went. I had been warned that the Frozen "short" (~20 mins) before it was not that great, so I went in with low expectations, and I warned my niece that I had heard that it was like 2 minutes of Anna and Elsa and 18 minutes of Olaf. As soon as Elsa came on screen, Hilary audibly gasped and said "LOOK AT ELSA'S BEAUTIFUL NEW DRESS" and I knew she'd be fine. But she really liked it and since I had gone in with very very low expectations, it was not as bad as I expected. Coco was really good, I liked it a lot, though it made us both really sad (probably with losing my dad so recently, it was harder). At one point Hilary was lying on me and crying and I was crying too. When the movie ended she looked at me and said "that was so sad" but she said she really liked it. (when I reported to her parents, I left out the part about me crying). I found out yesterday that later that night, Paul went into the bathroom and found her sitting on the toilet weeping about missing her papa (grandpa). It was also hard for me because both the Frozen short and the movie were about how important family is, and it hurt my heart with all this crap we're going through with my sister. Side note: before the movie I asked my niece when she thought we could bring my nephew with us to see a movie (he'll be 2 in January, I took her to see her first movie when she was maybe 3). She thought about it and said I could take him when she's 9 (she's currently 5). So, guess we're still workin on that jealousy thing ;)

Saturday I worked on my final for my class while Rollin hung our lights (I wish I had been able to supervise as there was a change I wanted to make, but ah well). I got 90% of the way through my final with checking my math and everything and there was one question I just couldn't get for some reason so I decided to sleep on it and see if I could get it together the next day. The teacher didn't use a book so all we had were his slides, which were not always helpful. Rollin unexpectedly asked if I felt like going to the movies that evening, so we decided see Thor: Ragnarok. It wasn't my favorite but I still had a lot of fun with it, going in with lower expectations really helps so much. Plus I have such a soft spot for Loki and Thor.

Sunday I settled in to dig into my last problem on my final and finally things clicked and I was able to get all the math done and I think I did it correctly (I do show all my work so if I did screw anything up I should still at least get partial credit). I was so relieved and pleased to be done (it was due Monday at midnight but I really just wanted it done so I could relax). I planned on making Rollin's belated super gross birthday dinner. He loves liver and onions, and I make it for him for his birthday every year. He had asked me to add bacon to it this time (basically cook the bacon, then the onions, then the liver all in the same pan). I don't like bacon so I've literally never made it before. So, I learned about cooking it the hard way. I started out with just a few strips so I could try it out, and once I figured out that it wasn't going to get hard until I took it OFF the pan (me: well, it's still floppy so I guess it's not done yet!), I got it right after that. I made sure to extra cook the onions because I took them off a little too early last year. Lucky for me, Rollin said everything was perfect and he was so happy, which makes me so happy because he does kind stuff for me all the time and it makes my heart so happy to do something that he enjoys and appreciates so much. I had family dinner with my mom and brothers and sister in law and niece and nephew and we drew names for our family Christmas gift exchange. We included Kaytee even though we have no idea if she's going to participate or not. My brother texted the info to all of us and she did not respond at all, which makes me think even more that she has definitely blocked all of us on her phone.

I've been trying to work on forgiving her and letting go of my own hurt and anger at this whole situation with her. Mean things that she's said or done keep popping into my head. I also had kind of a revelation - my sister is basically ready to bail on us because we didn't bend ourselves to her will. Like, she is ready to fully disown us as a family all because we wouldn't rearrange everything so she could go on this trip. And then I think about all the shitty things she's said and done over the years and the ways that I've always tried to soothe her and coddle her. So just imagine how she would react if I expected her to stop being an asshole to us all the time, or treat my partner with respect, or anything like that? It makes me feel like she's been trying to get out of the family this whole time and now she finally has an excuse to do it. I feel manipulated and annoyed and frustrated. I do think she is sincerely hurt and angry, but I've been sincerely hurt and angry many many many times over the years. And I never ever would have tried to oust her from the family. The only person who wants her out of this family is her. And if she's going to insist on it, there's nothing we can do.

Theeeen we come to Monday. My Monday plans were: gyne appt at 10:30, mammogram at 11:15, head from there to my BFF's house to exchange gifts and play a couple rounds of scrabble and watch the X-Men The Animated Series Christmas Episode, then head over to my mom's to visit with the kids until they went home, then probably dinner with my mom, then home for sexytimes with Rollin (since we had to abstain over the weekend due to my gyne appt). Instead the day was kind of a clusterfuck. So I went to my gyne appt, it was quick (I guess I'm officially now only getting paps every other year so it was just a physical exam), and showed up half an hour early for my mammogram (same building). I was really excited that I might be done super early so I could go to Mar's and have fun, then head home and play with the kids. When I arrived at the mammogram place, there was no one else there, so I had very high hopes. Unfortunately it turned out there was someone in front of me and she had just stepped out for a minute. Still, I was thinking this was going pretty well. She went in and I read my book. About 15 minutes later, the tech came out to tell me that they were having a problem with the machine and they were going to reboot it, so it might be another 20 minutes or so because the machine had stopped working in the middle of the other woman's mammogram. I could hear them talking in there, and one of them was like "are you conservative? I have to show you this shocking video!" and i was like oh fuck. So apparently there's some conservative religious talk show host or something and he was asking questions of Alexa, and supposedly after she gave a detailed description of who the prophet Mohammad was, he asked who our Lord Jesus Christ was, and supposedly Alexa said he was a fictional character (I did like 10 seconds of research and apparently when people started replying to this guy that they asked their alexa and she said nothing like that, he insisted that Amazon had to rush to push something more appropriate out). There was more but at first when she came out and told me the machine wasn't working I was furious because I thought she was just dillydallying to watch this stupid video. Then I heard her talking to tech support so that made me feel slightly better. Half an hour later the tech came out to tell me they were STILL having problems, they were waiting for a call back from next level tech support. At this point I probably should have asked about rescheduling, but I told her I had a book and I was good. They FINALLY got the machine back up and running and finished with the lady ahead of me, then when I went in she told me they had no record anywhere about any previous mammograms I'd had (I've had two, both in the same system that this place was part of, and one of them was literally in the SAME ROOM that we were in). She searched and emailed and finally had me sign paperwork so she could request it from my medical record with my gyne. Finally we finished the mammogram, it was 12:30. I had gotten a text from the purchasing person that her dad had passed away and asking if I could take care of ordering. Of course I'm not going to be a jerk to her about it in this difficult time for her, I had been hoping I could quickly squeeze the critical stuff out. A few blocks away from the drs office I remembered that the mammogram tech never gave back my license and insurance info so I had to go BACK to get it. I got home a bit after 1 and had all kinds of problems getting the stupid orders to open correctly, Rollin's printer had died over the weekend so I couldn't print them, and for some reason I didn't have the access I needed to the primary documents that held the order form and I had to track down someone to grant me access (wtf!). I didn't finish placing the critical orders until 2:30 or so. Since it takes a while to get to Mar's house, I asked if I should come or we should reschedule, and she pointed out that if I came then, traffic would be horrific on the way home, which is sadly true. We ended up rescheduling, which I felt horrible about because she literally took the day off work just so we could hang out. I went and hung out with the kids, which always soothes me, and for the first time ever, Frankie *squealed with delight* to see me and ran to me for me to pick him up when I arrived, which was *awesome*. Even Hilary commented that he'd never done that for me before (he likes me, but if grandma is there, I'm chopped liver to him). We all played together and had fun. I had been hoping I might get a chance to talk to Kaytee and get a definite answer about Christmas (since we're going to have to rearrange who has who if she's not participating), but after the day I had, I figured it was probably for the best that she wasn't around (she was home but hiding in her room - mom said that she's started getting up really early in the morning so she can go downstairs and eat before mom gets up so she can hide in her room all day). When I got home, Rollin was exhausted so no sexytimes for us (we did have some surprise sexytimes in the middle of last week so that was really nice). I decided to dye my hair blue (I don't bleach it, but I got a color designed for brunettes and I was mostly hoping to darken it enough that my roots wouldn't be horrifically obvious since my ill-advised highlighting job is still slowly growing out). Today my hair looks black and I'm still getting a lot of color transfer. And just from trying to wash it out, my fingertips look like I'm a smurf (thankfully I got the rest off). I have water aerobics tonight so hopefully the chlorine will help lift the blue from my skin, and I'll wash my hair extra thoroughly so hopefully I'll stop leaving blue on everything my hair touches.

Back to work today, I had my every-other-week sitdown with my boss and explained what I did with the orders (I finished the rest this morning). He didn't acknowledge it at ALL. Not a 'thanks for taking care of this on your day off', not a 'we can adjust your timesheet since you worked some extra time', not even a recommendation to go home a little early to compensate for the time. What the hell dude?
nytshd3: (Messy)
It's 10:30. Jim is not here. The temp agency has not been in touch. WTF.

books

Sep. 22nd, 2013 09:52 pm
nytshd3: (Messy)
some of these will be brief but i've let this sit around for too too long.
Read more... )

Books!

Jan. 27th, 2013 11:44 pm
nytshd3: (Messy)
Some disappointments this time around
Read more... )
nytshd3: (Default)
Here's the latest crop.
Read more... )
nytshd3: (Default)

I havent posted about books in a long time!
Read more... )

nytshd3: (Default)
Not a ton of high-scoring books this time around, but a couple of big winners.

Read more... )
nytshd3: (Default)
Catherine the Great: Portrait of a Woman - Robert Massie. This was an interesting book about Catherine the Great of Russia's life, from her childhood in Germany through her entire reign. She was a very interesting character, and there were a lot of people who influenced her life. what i liked about this book was that it was very in-depth, it covered a lot of different areas and explained some of the political intrigues. what i didn't like was that it focused on one particular area over a long period of time, and then talked about a different area over an overlapping period of time, and i found that confusing. it might have been better if i had been reading instead of listening, i'm not sure. but it was very interesting and I liked it overall. B

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking - Susan Cain. As an introvert, i loved this book. i frequently found myself saying "YES! EXACTLY!" about a lot of different things they brought up. i think this was a good, thorough book. it covered workplace, leadership, personal stuff, and even kid stuff. i really feel like i got a lot out of it and like it gave me useful information. it helps that my boss is also an introvert and has also read this book, so we're on the same page on that stuff (i also feel like she'll be more understanding when i tell her i'm going in to a conference room by myself to do some work for a couple hours). A

The Disappearing Spoon: And Other True Tales of Madness, Love, and the History of the World from the Periodic Table of the Elements - Sam Kean. surprisingly, when you tell people that you're reading a great book about the periodic table, they tend to be skeptical. but i really loved this book! it was so much fun hearing all the stories behind the elements, the arguments between the scientists, their personal lives, the snubs they had to deal with, etc. i read this not long after the poisoner's handbook, which i also loved, and i felt like it brought me even more depth on the elements covered in that book. A

The Help - Kathryn Stockett. one day, i was at my parents house doing laundry and no one else was home. this book was lying around and i decided to pick it up. i read 50 pages. next time i came back, i read 50 more, and i figured i should just take it home and finish it. it was interesting and engrossing, and i enjoyed it. was it in-depth and hard hitting? well, no. it was a light read. not surprisingly, i liked the book more than the movie (which i watched after finishing the book). there were things i liked and things i disliked, but overall it was a quick, relatively entertaining read. B-

Thief of Time; The Last Hero: A Discworld Fable - Terry Pratchett. These are the next two books in the Discworld series. Thief of Time was fun and included Death and his granddaughter Susan, who are two of my favorite characters. The Last Hero was fun because it was done as a big picture book, and the characters were entertaining to see. B+

White Witch, Black Curse - Kim Harrison.  The next in the rachel morgan series.  still enjoying the series  :)  B

books!

Dec. 4th, 2011 12:45 am
nytshd3: (Default)
Time for a book report!
Read more... )
nytshd3: (Default)
yesterday at water aerobics....

gal in my class: your name is ann, right?
me: yep!
her: i keep wanting to call you scarlet for some reason
me: ooh i like scarlet, you can call me that :)
nytshd3: (Default)
i have an old school garage door. instead of rolling up, it's a big flat door that lifts straight out. the only bad thing about it is that when there's an assload of snow, i have to dig my way to the door before i can open the garage door.

last night i came home from the gym and started walking to the house and hit the garage door closer.i was about halfway to my house when i heard a sound that reminded me of breaking glass and i turned around in time to see something fly out of the garage. i went back there and there was a big ass piece of metal. a little more investigation showed me that the arm on one side had basically snapped in half. i haven't got a clue how to fix this (or if i even can). my parents are going to swing by today and take a look at it and see if it's something they/we can fix. if not, i'll be in the market for a garage door repairman. blah. it actually still opens and closes (i moved my car out so i wouldnt end up this morning with my car stranded in the garage), but dangit, what a pain in the butt.

books

Nov. 1st, 2011 10:22 am
nytshd3: (Default)
wow, two book reports that werent 6 months apart!  :)

a few books behind the cut.
Read more... )












books

Oct. 13th, 2011 10:39 am
nytshd3: (Default)

haven't done a book report in a while!

Read more... )

boyfriends

Oct. 9th, 2011 10:00 pm
nytshd3: (Default)
me: i still haven't finished watching fish tank
bruce: never heard of it
me: it has my boyfriend in it
bruce: lance henriksen?
me: younger
bruce: benecio del toro?
me: younger
bruce: michael fassbender?
me: that's the one
bruce: that's really sad that i know their names and you don't

:)

books

Aug. 23rd, 2011 11:30 am
nytshd3: (Default)
here's a happier subject! Books!
Read more... )
nytshd3: (Default)
some books behind the cut.
<lj-cut>
Dead Reckoning - Charlaine Harris - the latest in the sookie stackhouse series!  it's funny cuz sometimes when i'm listening to a book, even if i like it, i get to a point where i think... yeah, i'm about ready for this book to be done now.  with the sookie books, i feel like i'm visiting with an old friend, and i'm very sad when i see i'm down to just one or two more disks to go.   i would say i didn't love this one as much as some of the earlier ones, but i did still enjoy it and had a fun time visiting with sookie.  i guess harris is planning on ending the series after a couple more books, so maybe she's just winding down.  B+

703: how I lost more than a quarter ton and gained a life - Nancy Makin.  i'm kinda torn about this book.  first, when i picked it up and saw the number 703 written in frosting, with some cake on a fork underneath it, i almost put it back on the shelf.  and the thing is... makin dosen't talk at all about eating cake or being obsessed with sweets or anything else like that.  in fact, i would bet that if she had any say at all on the cover, she would have veto'd that one.  anyway, makin talks about her life, her childhood partially spent at a religious place her mother dragged them off to, getting married and having a baby very young, struggling to make ends meet, etc.  she gained weight slowly over time, eventually getting to a point where she was ashamed and embarassed to leave the house.  she eventually moved into an apartment building, and refused to leave.  she missed many events, including her son's wedding and her father's funeral, because she couldn't get around.  my only complaint is that tho the title says "how i lost a quarter ton," she makes virtually no effort to explain how she lost the weight.  she began with getting a computer, and tho she started out a technophobe, she found her way onto political websites and began to make friends and get to know people.  she spent so much time chatting, she stopped eating so much and started to lose weight like crazy.  once she became more mobile, she got a job cleaning houses and lost a lot more weight.  what i do like tho is that she's not one of those people who tell you how to eat or what you should or shouldn't do and all that junk.  she ate the stuff she wanted, and just tried to make better choices if she noticed her pants getting snug.  at one point, she was on the oprah show and while all the other 'extreme weight loss' people were talking about how they had been "really good" on their trip there and one person had eaten something "bad" and then spent 3 hours on the treadmill, she said she tried some of the local food and enjoyed it and that was that.  while this method/approach wouldn't work for everyone, i love that she's not a slave to food or calories or the treadmill.  it wasn't that exciting, and some parts dragged (but really, whose life doesn't?), but i liked her spunk and honesty, including talking about having to get surgery to remove her excess skin.  B

Perfection: a memoir of betrayal and renewal - julie metz.  julie, her husband henry, and their young daughter were living happily enough, when henry unexpectedly and suddenly died.  he was young, and it was a shock, so it took a long time to try to deal with the situation.  after things settled down a bit, someone leaked her some information that henry had not exactly been Mr. Faithful.  i came in expecting julie to be a sympathetic person, but i found her just as spoiled, annoying and narcissictic as she complained everyone else was.  i get that she was hurt and feeling angry and betrayed - who wouldn't?  but the more she told, the less sympathetic i got.  when she first met henry, he was ON A DATE with another woman when he picked her up.  he then dated her (at the same time as the other woman) until he broke up with the other woman so she would let him sleep with her.  so... really?  you're surprised he's a cheater?  she is insanely self-centered, and tho she occasionally tells stories that involve her daughter, the majority of the stories are just to foward her own story (e.g. telling a story about her daughter saying sometimes daddy would get mad at me when i was playing in the computer room - because he was emailing his girlfriend(s) from there) and almost nothing about how her 6 year old dealt with her father's death.  at one point one of her friends has to tell her to buck the fuck up and take care of her damn kid cuz she's too busy obsessing about henry's affairs and trying to carry on her own illicit fling with a younger man from their circle of friends (another time she's lies to a friend who's babysitting for her because she decided to have a quickie with her younger man rather than go pick up her kid).  one of henry's affairs was with a woman from their circle of friends, so i can kinda understand her rage at this woman - it went on for several years and the woman seemed totally unrepentant (of course, this may have just been how julie saw and/or portrayed her)...  their kids had been friends and after the woman told her husband, the husband asked julie to keep things discreet because they were going to stay married and keep their family intact.  julie told everyone she knew though, and the husband was very angry that she had aired their dirty laundry.  this part i feel was kinda understandable, on both sides.  however, then julie obsessively hunted down every woman she could find out about that henry had an affair with and confronted all of them (saying things like 'how could you sleep with a married man?!' even tho she admits that she had her own affairs with married men when she was younger) and then wants them to talk to her about him (i have to give the mistresses credit - if i was fuckin a married dude and he died and his widow called me and started yellin about how dare i sleep with her husband, etc, i sure wouldn't be having a nice chat with her about what he was like).  she eventually starts dating and strings along a couple of guys who seem perfectly nice.  in the end she finds a new guy, moves away from the small town where her husband's mistress lives (partially because she just about has a nervous breakdown every time she sees the mistress), and enjoys her life.  oh, and hey, her new man is great with the kid too, so, yay.  it was a compelling read, but every time she hunted down and confronted a new mistress i was rolling my eyes saying 'seriously??'  C+ i guess, since it was compelling

half a life - darin strauss.  strauss is apparently a fiction writer, but this is an autobiography.  as a teenager, he was driving down a road when a schoolmate of his who was riding a bike unexpectedly turned in front of him.  he hit her, and she died.  even though the cops told him there was nothing he could have done to prevent the accident, he spent most of his life steeping in guilt.  the girl's mother told him that he was going to have to live for two people now.  so as he reached milestones in his life, he thought about how she would never reach those milestones.  and when he had accomplishments, he thought 'but is it enough for two people?'  i hope i'm never in a situation like that (and neither is anyone i love) - even if it's totally not your fault, there's so much guilt involved...  and i can't even imagine how much worse it would be if you actually *were* at fault.  the physical book was kinda kewl too, they made it with half a book jacket, i thought that was nifty.  B

rainwater - sandra brown.  i borrowed this from [livejournal.com profile] stormkpr . it was sorta interesting, but i felt like it moved too slowly.  the story was well-told, but i often felt frustrated with the slowness of the storyline.  the historical aspects were interesting, but it was a challenge for me to get through the book. just wasn't my "speed" i guess.  maybe i was just mad that it took so freakin long for the main characters to get busy.  :)  C

the witching hour - chris bachalo & jeff loeb - a fun graphic novel, i had read that it was a good one so i got it from the library and it didn't disappoint.  it's kinda hard to explain...  the concept is this group of people (or, well, beings anyway) have the ability to give people choices and truly change their lives... but it's a be careful what you wish for kind of thing.  I wanted a lot more meat to it but i enjoyed what was there.  B+

Books I started but couldn't finish

jane austen book club - karen joy fowler.  i ran out of stuff to listen to in the car so i ran in and picked this up at the library.  once i started listening to it, i couldn't wait to get back to the library to get ANYTHING to replace it.  so boring.  so, so boring.  it's supposed to be a story about a group of people who form a book club and read exclusively jane austen books.  the book was boring, the person doing the reading wasn't very good (or at least it felt that way - it might have just been the crappy source material).  this was made into a movie so presumably a lot of people loved it, but i couldn't tolerate it.
nytshd3: (Default)
dear michael fassbender,

please come to dragoncon so i can abduct you and keep you tied to the bed in my hotel room   see you in person and molest you til security drags me away    figure out a way to get you, lance henriksen and colin ferguson to abscond with me to make a new film called azazeal, frank black and jack carter meet the lady nightshade   rub one out in the audience of one of your sessions   actually hear you talk about your roles in hex, jonah hex and x-men  :)  and maybe get to see you naked an autograph.   and a nude picture.

love and kisses and oh my god i want to eat you alive
sincerely,

Ann
nytshd3: (Default)
I didn't realize I'd built up more books than I'd thought since my last book report. Here's part 1. Part 2 later on, maybe tonight or tomorrow :)
Read more... )
Page generated Apr. 23rd, 2025 11:49 am
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios